Successful Aging: Finding the Fifth Level
The
Older Nebraskan’s Voice
Vol. 7, No. 1, 1976, 23-24
Roger
Hiemstra is looking for the secret of successful aging. There are some people,
"self-actualized individuals," he says, who are at "the upper
pinnacle to which most people aspire but never reach. . . where you really have
your head on, you're a mature person, you're calm, at peace with the world. You
sort of have a fifth-level understanding of the world. Few people ever achieve
that, but some of the very greats do."
These
are the people Dr. ("call me Rog") Hiemstra has been conducting
interviews with. But the story goes back much further. During an adult
education research project, Hiemstra made a startling discovery. "We were
attempting to discover obstacles that prevented elderly people from
participating in institutional forms of adult education,” he said. “We found,
much to our amazement, that a lot of stereotypes began to get torn down, that
the older person in Nebraska is heavily involved in learning, most of it
outside of the institutional, classroom approach."
And
when he compared the hours these "self-directed" learners spent
learning with the differences in their background—age, sex, race, marital
status, educational background—he found "no significant differences."
Since "about 99 per cent of what we adult educators do is all expert-planned,
classroom-style learning," Hiemstra concluded that "adult educators
are only reaching the tip of the iceberg . . . we really have to change
ourselves around."
The
study left him intrigued. He had had his eyes opened about the learning habits
of old people. He wanted to learn more. "I wanted to do a study of some
very mentally active people, people I term "successfully aged." By
inquiring around, he was able to find thirty people "who by reputation are
very active in their home-life, . . . and engaged in
learning all the time." After conducting thirty "probing
in-depth" interviews, Hiemstra began to compare the personal histories of
those he had interviewed. He was looking for background influences,
"casual variables, that relate to what I call, "successful
aging," he said. Hiemstra tried to isolate as many of these "casual
variables" as he could. He looked at the occupation of parents, their
educational background, and such influences as "was reading fostered in
the home?" He thoroughly analyzed his taped recordings, hunting for clues
that might lead him to an understanding of "successful aging."
"I don't think it's a magical secret that you can
peddle to anybody," he said. "It seems to be a whole series of things
that happen to some that doesn't happen to some others. You can almost see it
in some people's faces." He found
many things that did not seem to make any difference. Money,
for example. "Other than total poverty, I saw all types of
situations. Some of my people were fairly poor, but money didn't really mean
too much to them. They had achieved a satisfaction in life that went beyond
their material needs, so money wasn't a variable." Health did not seem to
be important either. Hiemstra talked with people who had "all sorts of disabilities,"
that appeared to have little impact on their way of looking at life. "It's
something deeper than that," Hiemstra concluded.
Education
played a role, but "it's not necessarily high amounts of formal
education," that was the important factor. More than half of those
interviewed had either been school teachers at some part of their lives or, if
not, had parents who were schoolteachers. "It's an attitude," he
said. "It's not the amount of education, but you take what a teacher has
to do, to be able to constantly update, to be able to relate to a lot of different
kinds of people, it's an attitudinal thing in life that's important."
Of
the thirty older people interviewed, more than two-thirds were first-born
children. Hiemstra noted that much research has been done on first-born
children, "their success ratio is high," he said. Of these thirty
people, a large number were engaged in writing. Many had written books on
poetry, several had recently joined writing clubs or had had articles published. But such specific, readily
isolated factors were unusual. The more compelling characteristics Hiemstra
found tended to run more to the abstract.
"There
is a fierce independence in these people. They're highly self-motivated.
They've overcome all sorts of adversity in their lives. One thing that came
out, and it was said in different ways, was that you have to have stored up in
your lifetime a reserve of what they call 'inner resource'—an inner storehouse
of satisfactions and experiences that you can draw upon in older years."
Hiemstra
is convinced that his research projects can help adult educators serve the
community. "I would guess that there are some I clues that could come out
of this that could help others. Obviously, if a person is a third born, you
can't make them a firstborn, but you can uncover from the research what is
important about being a firstborn and maybe translate that. . . there I are a
lot of things that we can do."
The
successful aging study appears to be leading Hiemstra into further studies on
senility. "I am convinced that a person of any age is very capable of
learning, learning new things and learning heavy things. So much of what is
done in nursing homes tends to be artsy-craftsy kinds of things, painting by
numbers or putting glitter on glue, things that would be humiliating to
kids."
Senility
could easily be a "defense step" for many people, Hiemstra suggests.
"There are a lot of people (in nursing homes) who are very intelligent,
very well-educated. If you can involve people in learning projects, using each
other as resources, I'd suspect that you could create an environment that would
be fantastic. . . a vibrant kind of thing where
they're involved all the time."
Hiemstra
hopes that his research can have an impact on the lives of people of any age.
"The real answer," he said "is in changing the attitudes of
society. We must change our whole approach to working with the older person,
our whole approach to the importance of older people." “I got so turned on
by my interviews, it made a significant impact on my life. It's probably going
to direct my research for the rest of my life, there's no doubt about that.
It's given me a greater appreciation of the aging process and the potential of
myself as an aging person."
I
consider myself fortunate to have sat at the feet of three or four of these
self-actualized people. They're very private, and yet they've achieved a
personal greatness that you have to be with them a while before you uncover. I
have to find a way of putting this down on paper so I can share it with others.
They were completely at peace with themselves and the world."